Interview with Rajbir & Kulbir Kaur

Please tell us a little bit about yourselves to begin
with including your hobbies, interests, your school and memberships?

First of all, Guru Fateh to all. We’re 16 year old and it’s such a
wonderful gift from Waheguru that we are twins. Our hobbies are very
much same, hiking, talking, do kirtan, listen to kirtan, playing sports,
Gatka, eating, writing poetry (only Rajbir), shopping, going to
amusement parks, squeezing babies’ cheeks, anything outdoors, etc. Our
interests are 100% interest rate of a car payment…JK…interests are
basically what a normal teenage girls like to do…our school is the best
school that was ever invented. We’re members of a lot of organizations,
such as SikhGiving, AVID, BSU, School Indian Club, Be the Change Club,
Discoversikhi, KOHLS, Debate Club, and many more
Being twins, you seem to have a really special and happy
relationship. How have you found growing up together, almost identical
to each other? Do you find you have the same interests and tastes as
each other?
Yes being a twin is kinda fun. We mean you have someone who will always
be there for you. Growing up as a twin is interesting. I mean, you can
enjoy life, fight but get along so well after 5 minutes, fool people,
and more. People wish they were twins but we thank Guru Ji for making us
twins. We do not have the same interests. Rajbir likes a different
sport, and I love another. She may hate a friend, I may love them. She
may like a specific food, and I might hate it. We are alike by looks but
we are different by hearts. I mean if you really really know us, you
would know that we are not very much alike. We have different
perspectives of things. Overall, having a twin is fun.
As you girls are Turban wearing singhnia, how do your classmates treat
you in school?
Actually at school, particularly everybody knows about Sikhi. And
not yet has anyone treated us wrong. If you truly ask me, I think that
my high school is like the best from all the other high schools.
Teachers treat students equally, so do the students. I mean if you have
school spirit, you will be okay I guess. Everyone understands why we
wear a Dastaar to school. No one judges you the way you are, but the
person you are.
What interested you in playing Gatka? How does practicing gatka makes important part in your life?
Gatka…..Gatka…..Gatka…. We love it. Absolutely enjoy playing it. When we
were young, our dad’s friend, Ranjit Singh Ji, who is the gatka master,
always came over to our house, and he taught us how to play it. We
played gatka since we were like 6 years old, along we started doing
keertan, memorized full japji sahib, and much more. Learning gatka has
changed us a lot. Gatka DOES play an important part in our life. Like
Shaheed Jathedarni Bibi Dalair Kaur Ji stated, “Sisters, we have given
our heads to our Guru-Father. We have lived for truth- now the time has
come to die for it. Remember, sisters that we are all trained warriors
and we will die fighting rather than be taken as slaves.” So, if I were
to paraphrase this quote that Bibi Ji stated, I would say that Mai Bhago
risked her life fighting. She gave her head to Guru Ji, and we should
follow Mai Bhago, and do the same. Learning gatka is pretty easy.
All you need to do is practice gatka on a daily basis. And you will get
better and better without knowing it. Special thanks to “LOVELA UNCLE!”
Who taught you doing Kirtan? And any favorite
kirtani?
Let’s see. There are a lot of people who actually taught us kirtan.
And we would love to thank them so much. The very first place we
actually learned kirtan was probably in Khalsa School when we were age
6. Then, slowly by slowly we got the hand on doing kirtan. And from
there, we improved a lot. The loving people who taught us kirtan are:
Bibi Ranjit Kaur Ji, Bhai Manmohan Singh Ji, Bhai Ram Singh Ji, Bhai
Mohan Singh Ji, and much more. Also, Bhai Jeevan Singh Ji who used to
stay over our house, and listen to our kirtan and he would teach us
kirtan. It was pretty good learning from Bhai Sahib. And a special
thanks to Bibi Kamaljeet Kaur Ji and Bhai Dalvinder Singh Ji for
teaching us Asa-Di-Vaar and additional shabads. But most of all Guru Ji
is the one who actually taught us kirtan. If it wasn’t his kirpa, we
would know nothing about keertan! Infact, if it wasn’t for Him (Guru
Ji), we would not be doing kirtan right now.
Our favorite kirtanis are Bhai Harpreet Singh Ji!! Of course…then Bhai
Harsimran Singh Ji, Bhai Karam Singh Ji, Bhai Apardeep Singh Ji, Dulla
Ji, Bhai Amolak Singh Ji, Aussie, etc. Particularly all kirtanis are
favorites. You can’t judge kirtanis, because all kirtan is gurbani isn’t
it? And the Khalsa who recite gurbani are doing a great favor for
themselves and others.
What do you think about the importance of knowing Sikh history?
We think that the importance of knowing Sikh history is that you get
to know more about your religion and culture. A religion survives by
their generation who inherit their history.
What are the possible ways to have more deep relations with Punjab
while living in United States?
SikhGiving is a Solution Oriented local charity based in Northern
California. Some friends bring the idea of how to stay connected to
Punjab while living here. They were influenced by an article stating
help need by a family for kidney transplant. We respected that idea and
today also support them wherever they go and help volunteer their
awareness and funding. It’s really cool to support our brothers and
sisters who are helpless and need immediate attention. We find ourselves
lucky to volunteer SikhGiving Projects that help us stay connected and
keep our deep relations with Punjab while a service to WaheGuru himself
within human form.
Are having youth camps around your local vicinity making any progress
in youth circle at all?
Since camps are social gatherings, they brings good awareness to
today youth like us and help understand Sikhi. We have many friends who
have changed whole lot after attending couple Sikhi camps.
Twins, thank you so much for reluctantly agreeing
to give us this interview. Is there anything else you would like to add
or a message our readers?
HELP yourself!…..There are many different events and gatherings and
chances in life where you get to know yourself better…take that chance,
and never forget your Sikhi way of life.
Thank you so much for taking the time to answer the above questions,
and we hope you can continue to carry the torch of Sikhi and inspire
others alike.